Mary Elizabeth Wildish

1903 - 1997
LocationBotesdale Nr Diss Norfolk
Age93 years
Cause of DeathStroke
Date of Birth25/12/1903
Date of Death24/03/1997
Visitors1,022 since 10/01/2009
Creator
Eve

My dearest Mum, one of twins born Christams Day, brother Noel.
She had 4 children, 1 son and 3 daurghters.
Lived to a ripe old age as she would say, 93years. Although times were hard and she didn't have much, mum gave us children so much to remember her by. Thanks to Mum us 3 girls all went to dancing lessons, we can all knit, sew and crochet. We all play music. Even my brother learnt to knit and plays music. From the age of 12 I went on to become a roller skater. For all this Mum must have gone without. And I thank her from the bottom of my heart.
She was a fun loving person and would do anything for anyone. Never one to miss out on anything. As my older brother and sisters left home I was there to look after her.In her later life Mum went to live near my brother. My brother and oldest sister would have her for holidays. She loved to travel. It was at this time I got closest to her, and to know her and love her so much. The day she had her final stroke I was admitted to hospital for major surgery. I'd made a promise to her years earlier not to let the dr's keep her on life support. She didn't want to be left on a machine. Sorry MUM this didn't happen, I wasn't well enough to be told and Mum layed for a week, my brother and sister not knowing what she wanted. The day I came home we had a call, it was my brother. Wanting my permission to take Mum of the machine. She had gone, it was the machine keeping her body going.
They took the tubes out and darling Mum you left.
To this day I regret not being well enough to go to her funeral.
Also years ago, we made a pact about another life after passing, and if there was such a life she would find a way to come to me.
True to her word, I now know she is somewhere better and happy and forgiven me for not being at her funeral.
I love you Mum more than anything else in this world and always will, and thankyou for all you taught me in life.
Always remembered. RIP.
Daurghter EvelynXXXXXXXXXXX
Mum i have been told by brenda, it was a drip in your arm that needed to come out, to allow you to pass over. not a machine as i thought.
Love you mum EvelynXXXXXXXXX

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happy birthday mum

Hello Mum, its been so long since I came on to write to you. But as you know I talk to you every night. What a bad last couple of months its been. I'm sure your aware of Ted's problems I tell you so often. I wonder now how long it will be before he comes to join you Bill and Brian. Talking to you last night it came to me you now have Derek and Bill with you, your card buddies and ludo players to play with again. Now Dereks brother Brian. Its not going to be a good christmas for me, the decorations are up but no presents to open.
Well Mum 2 sleeps and it will be your Birthday, Christmas Day. You'd be 108 this year. I shall be thinking of you my darling mum Happy Birthday. sweet angel, from Evelyn XXXXX

Eve (Daughter)

December 23, 2011

I'm so lost.......

dearest mum, another year gone by and I miss you sooo much.
Still soo many problems and struggling with life. Please look down on us Mum, and stay by my side.
Please send Brenda, and Rosemarie a kiss in their dreams.
Love you forever Mum
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Eve (Daughter)

March 23, 2011

butterfly.......

Dearest mum, You know i haven't forgotten you. Things are soooo bad for me at the moment. I'm sure you know. i can't get to church.
Since coming here to you last we have lost brother-in-law. I'm trying to look after brenda in Canada as much as i can by writing to her and being here on the computer.
We have now in this last couple of months lost Sister Rosemaries husband Brian.
My best friend Sheila, a medium and clairvoyant, my link to you. I'm devastated mum.
I too have had soooo.. many problems with ted and i'm sure your aware of that. I can only thank those people here mum who light your candles and verses.
This is for you Mum

A butterfly came floating by,
I thought i knew its face.
It landed on my shoulder,
and spread its wings of lace.
I looked and saw it smiling,
As it winked and flew away.
I'm sure mum i heard it whisper,
"we'll meet again some day.

Love you darling Mum
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A butterfly

Eve (Daughter)

September 18, 2010

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........Dreaming of you
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Many dreams are possible
And sometimes do come true
I know mine are impossible
For my dreams are all of you

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In my dreams i am so happy
Theyre so perfect pure and true
But all i ever wanted
Was you here and be with you

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When my dreams are over
Theres one sad and tear stained face
Its hard living without you
And no one can replace

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One day my dreams will come true
No sad and tear stained face
The pain will go forever
And happiness in its place

.~*♥ Falling Tears ♥*~.

As the tears start falling
Yet again another night
For i realy try so hard
Its another losing fight

.~*♥ Falling Tears ♥*~.

My tears will always win me
No matter what i do
Your memory a photograph
The tears come flooding
through

.~*♥ Falling Tears ♥*~.


My tears just wont stop falling
Im so sad,they make me blue
While ever these tears fall from my eyes
I will go on loving you

.~*♥ Falling Tears ♥*~.


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Someone's watching over me
I feel it in the air
That someone can't be seen or heard
But I know that they are there
It's someone very special, all around me and above
I know that they'll take care of me
They're watching me with love!!! xxxx

Fran Hutton (GTS Friend)

February 18, 2010

sorry mum

so sorry mum i haven't been to say hello for months. I'm just not coping with all thats going on around me and I'm sure you know all about it.
Why do i have all this depression mum? cause so many people are horrid to me and what have i done to them?
I try mum and live my life the way you would want me to. And i still come up against all this aggro.
I would love to come and join you mum, but is it meant to be. You have always told me it's my cross to bear, and things will even out.
well we've had one son dissown us, a daurghter who has very little time for me. And now another son has left me high and dry. When will he learn, another girl he's chasing, i wish mum you could tell me if it's going to work.
I just can't feel happy for him at the moment.
After all you've done for my kids in their lives not one will come and send thier love to you on here. The problems with ted at the moment i wish you could help.
Your anniversary is coming around but i don't need a day, date or time to remember you I do that every day.
The longer the time mum the more i miss you.
So much love to give you.
Your darling darghter
EvelynXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Eve (Daughter)

February 17, 2010

I Am

I am the rain that nurtures..the sun that warms
I am the wings of a butterfly..the dew on a rose

I am the blue in the sky..the red in the sunset
I am the twinkle in the stars..the light in the moon

I am the four seasons..the color of the rainbow
I am the shimmer of the snow..the fire embers glow

I am the gentle spirit inside you..the keeper of your soul
I am the dreams you fulfilled..the joy in your heart

I am the love in your eyes..the desire from within
I am the smile on your lips..the laughter in your voice

I am the wings that enfold you..the protector of your life
I am the one who shares your dreams..the fears ..your hopes

I am your friend..I am your Angel

~ Sandi Vander Sluis ~


Lots of Love ~ Fran xoxoxox

Fran Hutton (GTS Friend)

January 6, 2010

◄███▓▒░░ Happy New Year ░░▒▓███►
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ Just Sending A Quick Hug ♥ ♥ To A Beautiful Angel Up Above

I always took for granted,
What i thought i'd naver lose.
Becouse i never thought it would happen,
until i heard the news.


They said you were chosen for his garden,
His precious hand picked bouquet.
God really needed you,
That's why you couldn't stay.



Saying goodbye is never easy,
It's the hardest thing to do.
But what hurts me even more,
Is not the chance to say it to you.


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